I also don't believe in coincidences. I think that we are presented with these glimpses into their reality so we can accept what is.
In my case, last night I went to the store at around 9 pm and on my way back passed by W's house. OM's (man-boy) truck was there and he was getting into it. Behind him was W in her car waiting for him. I'm sure she saw my as her lights were shining into my car and I had to stop at the corner.
So, there she goes to spend the night, and she sees me as she's leaving. and I see her. Lesson learned.
When I got home I see she had called the house but D13 didn't answer the phone because she was playing a video game. W left a message that she wanted to talk to D13. I told D13 to call her back ans she did. I overheard her talking about my birthday coming up and W must have asked her if she got me a present yet because she said something about having to do that.
So, W needs to make sure the kids don't forget my birthday while she's screwing Man-Boy.
What a piece of work she has become.
The sad part is that it doesn't hurt that much.
The sadder part is I still think of her as my wife. How weird is that?