Hi W2G,
I am sorry that your H is still in limbo and that you are feeling frustrated. The two of you have been in this phase for a long time. Maybe it's time to try something different. I'm not sure what that would be but it may be worth thinking about it.

Don't lose hope. Your H cares about you and D a lot.

Me47
H46
S13
M16
Piecing since May/09

"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz