For goodness sakes tell the OM's W what's going on. She is NOT going to be happy your W is getting 'mind blowing' sex from her husband.

There is no way he is going to choose your W over his own. Get a back bone and deal with it. If your W wants full honesty then she needs to makes sure OM's W knows what's going on......and I bet she is not ready for that amount of honesty.

OK....things may go pear shaped for a while but at least the lying will stop and you just may have a chance at working on your M. At the moment you are just getting walked all over.

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength