Also you said you would not initiate the divorce proceedings. Well she is in no hurry and FH isn't pressing probably due to his marriage situation. So are you going to live like a monk while your wife doesn't? If not then the lesson about marriage you have been teaching/showing your kids goes out the window. Just throwing that out there. You two can always get re-married.
I definately see myself getting to that point. My thoughts had been that she's not initiating because maybe there's hope, and that I wouldn't do it for a different reasons. She wants it, she does it, but too guilty to do it. Or she wants me to be the bad guy. Another is my faith. God hates divorce. God has not led to file on her. God wants me to keep trying. God meant for us to be together.
I think I'm using my faith as an excuse, though.
Part of my conflictions.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."
