Originally Posted By: san
Native,

Hello, thanks for asking. I am still here. Just have not been posting. Nothing exciting or positive in my situation going on.
Hubby talks very little to me now. His quote "you silenced me"
I feel like he is punishing me.

I saw him for 1 1/2 hr yesterday for soccer. It was hard. He acts like nothing bothers him ...


Hi Sandy,

I know it's hard, but you need to act this exact same way. If you need to cry on your own, and/or vent on here, that's fine, but it's important that your husband see you strong and determined. YOU are not the one that made destructive decisions here, or who was morally weak.

If nothing else, do it because it will drive HIM nuts. When you let him see you defeated, he's beaten you twice.

Hugs,

Puppy