Just the other day you were saddened by the fact that your boys have nowhere to ride bikes when you are with them.
I am where you are. xH was totally focused on money when we were splitting. He got a large amount on D day, and will get another large amount in about 20 more days (yes, he took some of my retirement). I got the house after that. So he is debt free and I am house poor. But I get the big house, the yard, the wonderful street, and 100% profit when I sell. There is still equity in it as well. I can pay the bills, and still save a bit. Not as much as I want, but that will change down the road.
You can see my position here. Right now you are paying your rent and half the house payment right? If you do the math, and can afford it after paying W off, I say move back into the house.
