Crazy day here. H calls in the morning to tell me that he had his laptop stolen from his car in the middle of the night. A book of checks from our joint account was in there and he thought some info for other accounts. While talking to H I get a text that my school is closed because of a fire. I ended up spending part of the day at the bank with H moving money and opening a new checking account for HIM. I already opened one two months ago so we also moved some money there. Now we have seperate accounts, although we opened a joint savings account that we put in a lump sum until H gets back from an overseas trip. Now H has not done anything with this money that we have had since the beginning of the year, so it will probably sit there for awhile.
H has been calling me a lot for the past few days. Today I had to help him out a lot, more than I should have. He did share with me today that he is off all meds, which I had suspected. I am pretty sure he has quit going to IC as well because he told me he quit it all pretty much cold turkey.
R 23 years M 20 years Bomb June 2007 S Oct 2007 Ds 11 & 16 Ds and I moved out Aug. 2008
Just checking in. This may be my last weekend to get out on the bike and it reminded me that I hadn't touched base with you in a while.
Hope you are well.
Thanks for checking Woog. I am doing good today, but the two previous days were stressful. Some involving H, some work. He is in Europe now, so I get a little break. I'll post more details this weekend when I have energy.
Enjoy the ride. I'm guessing it is beautiful there. I am enjoying the fall colors here so much, but I fear it is near an end. Rumors of snowflakes this weekend.
R 23 years M 20 years Bomb June 2007 S Oct 2007 Ds 11 & 16 Ds and I moved out Aug. 2008
I didn't realize I had posted about the computer and account stuff already. That was pretty much the stress at home.
I can't believe the the number of times H had called me this week. Multiple times a day and many times for no reason. I am wondering if something is up with the OW. Don't know if he finally got tired of her or what. That has been the pattern of behavior whenever he has had an EA.
As far as the meds...H said he got off of them when he forgot to take them. Then he just stopped taking them. He was on meds for migraines as well as depression. Not a good way to stop taking them. His mood has been suprisingly good considering he is not taking anything. I do know though that he is back to not sleeping so even though I think his IC sucked, he does need to get back into some kind of T.
I had a student with behavior issues moved into my class from another one. Parent is in denial and the power that be is not supportive. So my nice class that I had all in order after 8 weeks of work is now getting messed up. GRR!
R 23 years M 20 years Bomb June 2007 S Oct 2007 Ds 11 & 16 Ds and I moved out Aug. 2008
I forgot to mention something kind of funny. H's phone isn't working in Europe. Friday he sent a text to my phone and D's via the net. He gave us is secret e-mail address and said to use that to e-mail us. I mentioned something to D about her e-mailing him but she didn't. Saturday morning we got two texts asking if we got the previous ones and giving us his e-mail address again. It must be lonely there without OW.
R 23 years M 20 years Bomb June 2007 S Oct 2007 Ds 11 & 16 Ds and I moved out Aug. 2008
So he is missing you, huh? Or, as you put it, lonely. Maybe it will be kind of enjoyable to watch him for awhile???
And I feel your pain about getting a tough to handle kid in your class. I hate when you have your class "figured out" and they throw a monkey wrench into the whole thing!
just following along...sometimes distance makes one realize what they have at home. It's weird but I also get this way....of course I am not a WAS but in the past my W has sent me similar messages only to get back to "normal" when she got back. You may be right and there may be trouble with OW.
Hey Red: That sounds like a plus! He is obviously missing you. Be cautious...you have gained great strength and believe me, you don't want to be on that rollercoaster. But also leave the window open...just in case... (((RED)))
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
