ITH,

Again, your H sounds passive aggressive.. wanting to hang out with you then being cold and mean and doing things like taking the picture down!? I guess all you can do from a Db perspective is act as if.. but dont forget to validate hey, I mean, it may be frustrating for him that you are being so la-la-la when he is feeling so bad !? I dont know, its like you are ignoring the big white elephant in the room. Perhaps yuo could say, I'm sorry if you are finding this difficult, I dont mean to make it difficult for you.

Priya Kale has written another corker, for the New moon on Tuesday. Its long and really really interesting.

Here it is: http://www.priyakale.com/register/moonreport-Scorpionm1028.htm

Thats the bit you normally subscribe to, so she says if we share it with others to read, ask them to subscribe too if they enjoy her site.

Good luck with your crazy H! You are doing well, I can see its hard.
Ali xx


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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