Again, your H sounds passive aggressive.. wanting to hang out with you then being cold and mean and doing things like taking the picture down!? I guess all you can do from a Db perspective is act as if.. but dont forget to validate hey, I mean, it may be frustrating for him that you are being so la-la-la when he is feeling so bad !? I dont know, its like you are ignoring the big white elephant in the room. Perhaps yuo could say, I'm sorry if you are finding this difficult, I dont mean to make it difficult for you.
Priya Kale has written another corker, for the New moon on Tuesday. Its long and really really interesting.