Absolutely, I have nothing but total respect for the stance you are taking.
In the last couple of months i have seen such a turn around in my children. They have this innate ability to see through the MLC BS and are starting to realize who the stable parent is.
They don't want to spend that much time with my ex. They have found him very unreliable regarding finances and emotional support.
They see him fight with his "soulmate", the "love of his life".
They see him treat her like she is [censored] on a shoe.
They see the bill collectors at the door.
They are sick of his incessant whining and pity trips.
They see him pay for OW and her son and then deny them 5 bucks for school lunches.
The list goes on and on........
Your kids will see this. They will see and feel your love and committment.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
