W still seeing same guy , who lives out of town and is married . I can see that going well. She did not tell me but I just asked , I told her that I had been giving her time and that it was only proper that she let me know if she is seeing anyone. She told me yes and that she was going to wait until she knew how things were going to work out before she told me. I told her "I hope things work out for you" and left it that. The next day I packed up some small figurines that she had collected over the years. They were the only thing she wanted to take when she left , but they stayed . While I was away with work she was around to look after kids and I get a text " why have you taken my things out of cabinet??" I just text back , its about time they followed you. So she also took away some of her other stuff as well. There followed a few days with little communication and it was W that broke silence. Today was interesting. It was sunday and I had D13 with me . I let W know that I was going to spend day with D , also D is here tonight so I did not expect to see W at all. However around 3pm W arives , makes herself coffee and settles in , looking a little uncomfortable. I just carried on with my day and at dinner time she was still here , so I made her dinner without asking and she left a bit later. I dont think there was anything in it other than she gets lonely and wants to spend time around the family.