Thanks Trixi! Ok- so some good initial movement is happening in my sitch. I decided to simultaneously move on w/ my great new life (emphasis on exciting and great) and at the same time do a little DB and hold off on the final D paperwork for now.
Had an excellent convo tonight w. sbtx- He's called me twice in the last 3 days which I didn't answer, so I called him back for 10 minutes tonight. He answers the phone right away. (Yes, now he's calling me on a Sat night). I called him on the way to a friend's house so I didn't have a lot of time to talk and could cut off the conversation. I pulled a 180, acted like I agreed w. him that I never wanted our old R back, I'm having a great time right now, I don't have much time to talk to him etc. He started telling me all these details about his life currently and wanted to talk to me again tomorrow. I'm gone all day tomorrow, don't have time and so I said email me if you want. I casually mentioned that I told a new friend about him as "some guy I know from my old state" that has started a successful business and I'm proud of him. He actually said to me, "You mean you didn't tell him you were married?!" First time the M word has come up in any of our conversations since May.
DBer since 2003 D - 3/24/09 GAL and DBing for myself
