Maybe its time for both of us to do a 180. I don't know about you, but being "friends" gets harder everyday for me. It sounds like its getting harder on you too.
As far as what you "owe" OM...I would say an ass-kicking should even it up. Doesn't he have a wife? I say if your gonna stir the pot, make sure ALL the ingredients are in there, but thats just me.
They (my H, your W) need to miss us. They are cake-eaters and we are busy baking every minute of everyday.
Take care of you and your sweet girls. I can symathize with you about DD7, its so damn hard for them....
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option