The first and the third are pretty much the same. In that case, I guess it's time to decide whether it's time to call "time" on the whole thing. If she actually has some kind of a list, then there's a roadmap. Then I can decide what to do from there.
I think at this point I can accept any of those answers. The biggest trick if she is willing to try at some point is whether or not I think I can ever trust that we don't end up here again. But, I think I am still willing to take the chance on that.
