Also confused about 180 and finances as my H is in MLC and I too have always done the finances. I do the finances for two reasons; 1)my H hates to do them, and 2)is not good at them. As we are still together in the same house, I do need to insure that the mortgage and the bills are paid. H is self-employed and I will admit that in the past I have been a nag at times about getting a paycheck into the account in time to pay the bills. I have tried to totally quit mentioning a paycheck unless the mortgage is due and I will let other bills slide until he remembers on his own. Very difficult on me as I am a type A personality that can't stand a late fee, but figure our marriage is worth it.
Anyone have an answer for Sue and me?
Married - 19 years Noticed Problem - Aug 2008 THE Conversation - Oct 2008
The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference.
