.Hey Jeff, for what it's worth, I think that that is a fair question for your wife. And it could go three ways. She says there is nothing that would make it worth working on the marriage or that she would like you to ...... in order to work on it or that she does not want to work on it, but she can continue to live status quo.
I think you have to be prepared with what you are willing to accept. But you cannot assume you know her answer, because you do not know for sure.
