I agree with everything Kat said. You should use me as an example of how to drop the rope. Yeah, do everything exactly opposite how I do!!! My guess is that she's cake-eating. I think she does care about you; maybe she's trying to make sure you're always there to be her Plan B? So maybe going dark would make her make a choice or decision at some point if she feels like you're moving on? Plus, I think if at some point your W wanted to get back with you (which I do think there's a good chance), going dark would help you reduce some of the anger and hurt. And you've tried the friendly method; do you feel happy with the results or think a 180 with going dark might work? Cause you still haven't gone dark from what I can tell... Karen
My guess is that she's cake-eating. I think she does care about you; maybe she's trying to make sure you're always there to be her Plan B? So maybe going dark would make her make a choice or decision at some point if she feels like you're moving on? Plus, I think if at some point your W wanted to get back with you (which I do think there's a good chance), going dark would help you reduce some of the anger and hurt. And you've tried the friendly method; do you feel happy with the results or think a 180 with going dark might work? Cause you still haven't gone dark from what I can tell... Karen
