Working her a** off around the farm is a 180 for toh. Prior to this she did not help her H on the farm.!
Thankyou for pointing this out WCW it is a really important point.
Whilst married; TOH did not help her H around the farm, nor did they ML.
Now he has left she helps around the farm and ML whenever he wants.
So … in the mans mind he must be thinking he is better off now than before there is no incentive for him to move back in with his W and lose his farm hand with extras on tap.
Why would he want to go back to be married?
Nutty
He sure got her attention didn't he. If toh does 'stand by her man' and show him she can and will THAT is why he would want to go back and be married. How will dumping all the work on her H make things better?
I don't think I can explain to people who don't live it and love it how much a farm or a ranch means to someone who does it. The rewards aren't just tangible, it runs thru the veins.
toh, early in your sitch you mentioned you didn't help him much on the farm. Sorry I got that wrong.
Did you have court?
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
