I think you would benefit from the advice that Corey got on her thread...go as dark as possible. You are still being friends with her. she needs to feel what it would be like with just her POS and not our Hero(you) in the wings. Maybe he won't look so appealing when all the focus is on him!
Lots of hugs and thanks for not getting my thread to XXX while I was gone.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
