It was really weird to be at a funeral in my church and not have an active part in it! The folks were very happy to see me, it was nice. The pastor and organist/youth minister/business manager/all-things-to-all-people man ignored me, of course, which was fine with me. My favorite funeral director was there (yes, there are actually some genuinely kind people in that business!) but I didn't get a chance to talk with him.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012