Coach, hope you guys (Phoebe included) are having a great weekend.
We handle all raw discussions in MC where Doc stops things from escalating. He helps decompress topics & helps us see them as patterns of behavior, not personal attacks, even OM.
Hugs
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.