mC, I'm reading between the lines & it seems like you are at a place of no expectations. That is a great place to be. All stress is caused from frustrated expectations.
Thanks for visiting me.
Hugs
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.