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[GFI]

hi there Tostada...of course you love your wife...that goes without saying - I guess what you find difficult is how she's acting and the decisions she's making...

What are your options in this? From your posts it comes across as if you have decided not to do anything...just "check out"...

What could you do that is positive - even if for you only? In DB terms - is there anything you could try that is different? An observer gets the impression that whats going on at the moment isn't working...

I know it seems like things are inevitable right now but keep going...even if just for yourself and your kids -- not other motivation needed!

Best - GFI