Well folks - here's an update...as much for me as anyone, but of course as always - any observations are welcome...

I have been working hard to leave lots of space for my W, have done pretty well retreating I think, although its pretty difficult keeping a PMA when I go round to my old home to spend the night with S6 when W is spending the night with OM. I need to hurry up and get my place sorted out so S6 and I can spend those nights here. that will do my PMA good I think.

On to me...I went out for the first time in 18 months with work mates and had a good night...a good few people seemed pleased to see me out and about and I was pleased to be there. I enjoyed a drink, didn't go mad and called it a day at 10 and got train home. And today got my internet connection finally sorted out at my new place.

TMed W to say that I'd be up for doing something together with S6 and got a pretty positive response...we might do something tomorrow...

Then got a phone call at about 5.30 from W saying that S6 and her were off to the cinema and would I like her to collect me on the way...unfortunately I was driving and couldn't take the call and by the time I got the Vm it was too late...but nevermind. I have plenty to do but it was good to feel thought of...

I suppose W was only inviting me along for benefit of S6 but nonetheless...

The house is proving a challenge to sort out...but slowly slowly.

Have got on to the coaching programme I applied for through work - they have a programme where volunteers can get some coaching qualifications in return for input to local groups / schools - I'm pretty chuffed with that...have a meeting on Thursday to get more info.

KBO - GFI


Me: 40ish
W: 40ish
Together: 20 ish years
Married: 10ish Years