I wish I was at that place where I know i can be happy without H. I do have fleeting moments of it.
It might be different for you because you are the one wronged where I was the one doing the wrong. My H used to say he was happier away from me. Horrible to hear and that is why I try to create some good times together. Then fear is that I come across needy. Truth be told , I probably am.
It is heartening to hear you are not over and done yet though. So even though you know your happy on your own , you are open to change.
