OK BC - did you find that by not having contact

Your pain grew less?,
Your heart grew fonder ?
Did you get grow further apart from her?

I just wish I did not miss him. I see the OM every now and again and his family seems all very happy or at least in tact. Why can my H not see that we could have a stronger and better marriage. I torture myself over this question.

How does your wife seem to you ?