W met me for lunch with the kids and one her friends. She is still being nice and friendly. She asked me if I am going out tonight and I told her maybe. I have an offer to go out with one of our neighbors but I am pretty tired and the truth is that I don't want to. But I don't know if I am pushing my luck being home with her together, and I don't want her to go out again. I thought about asking her if we could spend the night in together, but things are getting better in baby steps and I don't want her to think I am rushing into things.

Does anyone think that I should ask her that? or should I just suck it up and go out for a little while, even if not for a long night? I hate feeling like I need to play games. The old me would stay home and want to be with her. I know I am asking WAY to much but it would be great if she would ask me to stay home with her.

Any advice would be great. thank you


Married 10/12/2002
Me 35 Ring On
Her 29 Ring Off
D 4
S 2
Don't know if I am in love with you 10/7/08
Kinda Separated 10/7/08
EA/OM 6/6/08

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