Your wife has a monster of an attorney and yours doesn't seem to be very proactive.
I agree.
As much as your W has been at fault and done many, many things to hurt you, she cannot "force" a judge to make a decision like that. She must have one helluva L - one who plays dirty, sounds like.
That doesn't mean you have to play dirty too, however; full financial disclosure should ensure that you do not lose everything over this.
That said, I did have to pay 1/2 of XH's debt accumulated while we were married, and I had to buy him out my house, which is worth 3x what it was when we bought it. And he's the one who cheated and bailed.
Whatever happens won't be fair, but I certainly hope it will at least not be atrociously UNfair.
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