She's searching for a way out!

[marriedCrazy]

the W just called me and made small talk about going to the gym and how her butt's getting bigger.

Then she asked me if I was still going out with the guys tonight. She alluded that she would be home after work so that I could go out. she mentioned that she would leave me $20 of the $70 that she owes me for gas and daycare on the table for me so that I have some cash for tonight.

It was a very pleasant phone call. Part of me wants to wonder what's up; but I'll leave it alone.

[marriedCrazy]

So I just got a txt from the W " so if you end up not hangin' with the boyz; let me know. GF2 has VIP at ***bar and invited me and BFF."

My plans aren't concrete; but now I want to just go somewhere to ruin hers. But then I like her not being in the house. OH what to do? What to do?.....hmmmmmmm......

[breakaway]

So I just got a txt from the W " so if you end up not hangin' with the boyz; let me know. GF2 has VIP at ***bar and invited me and BFF."

My plans aren't concrete; but now I want to just go somewhere to ruin hers. But then I like her not being in the house. OH what to do? What to do?.....hmmmmmmm......

DO NOT stay home! You were going out, if you "end up not hangin' with the boyz" then she just got you to stay home so she could go out. No no no. Just drive around if you have to. LOL

[breakaway]

She's manipulating you, Tom. Oh, I just happened to get VIP passes...so see, her plans are bigger and more special than what you're doing. Oh, if you end upnot going. Why would she say that. She is trying to get you to VOLUNTEER for what SHE wants.

[lost_in_space]

MC

IMHO - do something. Heck even got to a coffee shop somewhere other than in your neighborhood. Anything. Just make sure you head out.

[Molly44]

Go out without a doubt.
She is manipulating you.
Stick to your plans.

She might get angry at you , and say something threatening and you can have her removed from the house !!!!

[carpenter54]

Remember our motto......bros before hoes!!!

[SirPrizeMe]

oh just go out.
not to ruin her night, but to have a nice time yourself.

I don't see all the "manipulation" and ulterior motives. maybe they're in her, but I don't see it.

(you're out by now)

[Molly44]

SPM - As a woman i see the manipulation in that she is trying to see what he will do.

How bad does he hate me being in the house ?
Is he willing to give up a night of pleasure for himself in order to let me go out?
What else will he do for me ?
How far can I push ?

It is all mind altering and extremely manipulating and gauging what this woman has done in the past, this kind of cruelty is nothing - just a game. Never under estimate a woman who thinks she is ahead of the game.

And why not ruin her night - i bet MC has had more than his share of nights ruined.

[marriedCrazy]

I went out. Had a good time. got some good brew and "nuclear hot wings." they were still "nuclear" this morning as well. TMI, I know! LOL!

She went out after I got home; so my plans didn't stop HER plans. Anyway she comes home this morning and reveal a large freaking leg wound on her outer thigh. Seems her heel got stuck in a steel-grated stairwell leading up to the VIP. She never made it there. Stopped her evening dead in its tracks. Karma's a bi#$h.

She came in wearing her rings. That's a shocker. She's also talking forwardly about things we have to do with kids in the spring.

She still hasn't paid me any money yet for daycare or the $20 for gas; but she tells me she's going to spend all of her money next week on kid's clothes.

We'll see if that doesn't set me up for her to borrow more gas money.

Take care all and I appreciate the motivating comments. She does manipulate and I am aware of it. I'm going out again tonight while she sits at home.

Later.