Hey 54. I am here. Just not a lot happening today.
I am going to a fund raiser tonight (solo). The fund raiser is for a hockey team that my son plays against - know a lot of the people that will be there. AND a lot of the people have by now heard of what is going on (and have commented via friends that I should NOT MOVE FROM THE HOUSE UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES), so I expect a lot of questions, epsecially after the "pops" start flowing. One of the moms on the other team is the D lady that my W wanted to take for supper to figure out how to get more $$ from me...!!! The D mom wanted no part of that. Looking forward to the evening...
It has been a peaceful couple days. But the K's and I have kind of let the house get away on us... Have to clean that up tomorrow.
And damn work gets in the way...
Last edited by lost_in_space; 10/24/0803:45 PM.
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
You remember how to work a room?? Put the pimp hat on and work it bro.....just don't bring home any "nappy hoes"!!
Is there gonna be booze? You know all your buddies are gonna buy!!!
Last week my neighbor took me out...W was with her friends...free cap'n & cokes all night!!! No driving either.
Just cause sh!t sux rite now....doesn't mean all work and no play!!
My W sent me an email couple days ago of all the stuff that is going on for the next month....weekends included...she forgot to mention in the mail about some plans I know she is makin Halloween weekend...her BF told me about those. Today I make plans for sat nov 1st...then shoot her an email about it....and use her email with the plans as my guideline to make my own!!! The "doormat" is coin out!! LOL!
Last edited by carpenter54; 10/24/0804:50 PM.
H 34 W 31 M 11yrs D 11 D 9
6-1-08 I wanted to fix marriage 6-11-08 I found out about OM
Last night was not quite what I had thought it might be in that there was no conv with the other mom that I mentioned. BUT it was a BLAST.
54, the booze was flowing but given location and fund raising theme (hockey team), the conv really stuck to hockey. Don't think I sat down once other than to eat supper. Caught up with a lot of dads, and even some moms, that I hadn't talked to in a while. And it is events like that where you realize there are single folks out there in case needed...
All in all was a GREAT evening. Only downside was that S13 was home alone and he really doesn't like that late at night. I had been out for 4.5 hours so called it a night when he started texting me every 5 minutes.
Had a couple text message exchanges with W yesterday. One was kid related - more parent / teacher conferences I had to attend solo since W is vacationing, so I let her know what the teachers said about the K's.
Second was classic "fix this please". She wanted me to order a cable package for the vacation property in Phoenix. I had looked at it a couple days ago but didn't order. She texts me while I am out last night asking about it. My response, after an hour delay in responding, was "Not sure what's up with that. Will have to look online when I get home". Silly little conv, but nice to see she was in watching tv while I was out having a blast.
Hockey practice today, so will run into a lot of these folks again at the rink (other teams have a practice at similar time at a rink with 4 ice surfaces, so it is usually a 2 beer practice ).
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
Second was classic "fix this please". She wanted me to order a cable package for the vacation property in Phoenix. I had looked at it a couple days ago but didn't order. She texts me while I am out last night asking about it. My response, after an hour delay in responding, was "Not sure what's up with that. Will have to look online when I get home".
What, "The Infidelity Channel" isn't on the basic tier out there???
sounds like a good night! D9 had a bday party to go to. The parents are real good friends. We just chilled in the garage and drank some beers while the kids had their party
My W was home sick all night....stayin out till 4am will do that to ya!! Gonna hit the shower now and run some errands.....thinkin bout repainting the "man suite"!!
H 34 W 31 M 11yrs D 11 D 9
6-1-08 I wanted to fix marriage 6-11-08 I found out about OM
((((Lost))))) So glad you went out and had some fun too!
Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails
What, "The Infidelity Channel" isn't on the basic tier out there??? Sorry. Couldn't resist.
Originally Posted By: lost_in_space
:D I think it is now available in HD!
ROFLMAO!!!! That cracked me up!
Keep taking care of you and getting out there and doing stuff for you and the K's. Thats all we can do.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
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