My 29 year old wife going through MLC, this sucks

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SPM,

Thanks for he advice. Actuall between the time I wrote the post and the time I got home I was able to relax. When I did get home she was in a little bit of a distant mood but still better than the last few weeks. She did end up going out with some of the girlfriends I know. She told me she wouldn't be out late and where she was going, which is a change. But...here is the big change:

When she got home(later than she had planned of course), she made a point to come up to my bedroom and let me know she was home safe, and told me a little bit about her night. She made a point to let me know why she was so late.

Then this morning she told me all about her night and how much fun she had with her girlfriends and was really open about it. This is a big change because mostly she has been just saying nothing about her night. So after she worked out this morning she came home and was very nice still and even pranced around naked in front of me a little bit after her shower. I still am staying grounded, but it seems there are tiny tiny steps each day in the right direction.

As for your question about her coming back to the bedroom. I don't want to put specific requests on her when she comes back. I want her there more than anything. I just didn't know if maybe I should. I do believe that she probably wont come back unless she thinks she wants to try for us, because one of the things she was very aware of when we were going to MC, was that she didn't want to give me false hope.

So today I am still flying high. Tonight we are having a birthday dinner at her moms house and tomorrow we are having a kids halloween party at our house so that should keep us busy.

Thanks again for the positive feedback.