Your right Bill NOT MY advice. I am no where near the place to offer advice to anyone. Anyone who's been here knows that TOH can't get this right. That I have struggled tremendously and still am.

This post really moved me. Made alot of sense. And I know alot of it is very very true because I have lived it, did it wrong, and still learning.

I posted this here because I felt it was valuable info for newbies. If I had figured this MLC stuff out earlier on, maybe things would be different in my sitch.

"ALL"
And Bill, if this "ALL" was meant for me, I know your right...


M41
H42
D17
Adopted N14
M22 T24
"Bomb" 4/07
Sep 8/07
Admitted OW 11/07(only to me)
OW back 12/4/07
PA on off thru 7/08
says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08
D final 7/09
Moving on and up!!