Your right Bill NOT MY advice. I am no where near the place to offer advice to anyone. Anyone who's been here knows that TOH can't get this right. That I have struggled tremendously and still am.
This post really moved me. Made alot of sense. And I know alot of it is very very true because I have lived it, did it wrong, and still learning.
I posted this here because I felt it was valuable info for newbies. If I had figured this MLC stuff out earlier on, maybe things would be different in my sitch.
"ALL" And Bill, if this "ALL" was meant for me, I know your right...
M41 H42 D17 Adopted N14 M22 T24 "Bomb" 4/07 Sep 8/07 Admitted OW 11/07(only to me) OW back 12/4/07 PA on off thru 7/08 says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08 D final 7/09 Moving on and up!!