I hung on every word. I'm sitting here almost as happy as if this had happened to ME, and just thanking God for blessing you so richly during your week.
You deserved it.
Yes, you have a long way to go. But so far, everything you've done is, in my opinion, THE best way to go about the VERY difficult task of DBing where infidelity is involved. You've combined both the "tough" and the "love" of tough love, and done so in a patient, principled manner, and it's obviously working.
I can almost hear the other women posters swooning now over your entire story, especially the LM, your intervening at the bar, and the tender way you led your wife.
Hell, I'm a GUY, and I'M swooning. lol
More later; just ecstatic for you right now. Please consider that the circumstances during your week -- the perfect weather, the girl flirting with you, the guy flirting with your wife -- weren't coincidences.
