Your thread is tremendously clear. I am very glad you posted here for us new ones. If you have time, pls visit my post, 'I thought I had the perfect marriage' and feel free to comment at any time. I think my H is going thru MLC as well and doing all sorts of crazy stuff that isn't really 'him'. I feel like he isn't someone I know anymore. On the brink of giving up but trying very hard to detach. I know this all takes time and I am willing to wait it out but he is pulling away further and further and it's just breaking my heart. How far does he pull away before I say something? Until D?
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09
