trusting, thanks for your reply and hope you are doing ok now. I hear what you are saying and believe you me I will not let them trample on me whatsoever, I suppose god is letting me watch them as they struggle, wonder why he didnt let them watch me struggle. anyhow it is funny how the neighbours feel they have to report to me, just had a call to say numerous vans and her ladyships car outside the house, the painter and decorater is in, no sign of ex anywhere near, and I havent said I will lift my order, so she as jumped straight in and started the ball rolling with it all, geez they must be desperate to get some cash, oh dear me its a shame
