Something I did when my H and I started spending a bit more time together and things were really weird...

Imagine what a positive out come would be. Picture in your mind what would happen, how it would feel, what would you be doing? This really helped me. In moments of stress I would sit back, visualize things going well, and feel better.

You'll do great!. It is normal to feel on pins and needles at this point. It IS a new relationship you are starting. And it IS in the early phases- which is why it doesn't work to just move back in and pick up from being married. This finally makes sense to me- even though Jody said it to me a month ago...

Start small, don't push, enjoy your time and relax! Will be thinking of you today.


Me-36
H-30
T-7yr, M-3yr
DivorceBusting Saved my marriage!
sep 6-08 to 12-08. Together again, things are good!