Wow, ouch.....
I understand you are very tired and angry, but you have misread my post.
I never suggested D your H at all. I totally understand that.
I can see you are on the edge by what you posted (in blue) and then a few hours later changed it. I didn't expect answers just that you would maybe ponder it in your heart.
I guess impatience / anger has to be directed somewhere and I am a safe target. I am sorry you feel that way.
I certainly wasn't having a go at you are intending to touch raw nerves. Your reply suggests I did.
I hope you manage some rest time this week end.