Hi all,

I'm another WAS/no kids sitch. In my sitch, initially both of us walked away, but we are now talking again. I'm more committed to the R than my stbx, however, and am taking it day by day to see if there is a chance things work out. I first picked up DB/DR 4 yrs ago and was successful piecing for a while. Hopefully, I have some ideas to offer for others! \:\) I saw this on another thread and I think it's key- Stages of reconciliation:

1-Diffusing negative emotions
2-Friendship
3-Romance/Flirting
4-Piecing/R talk

Last edited by Loving_Life; 10/25/08 08:14 AM.
DBer since 2003
D - 3/24/09
GAL and DBing for myself