As I was reading your plans, Doc, I was thinking, sheesh, this sounds like he is going a little fast! You haven't kissed or hugged her in a week, but you have this bubble bath planned for you guys to do together? I mean it sounds nice but it sounds a little forward. Not what she is expecting. Not what she is ready for.
I love the idea of connection but maybe there is a gentler, less risky way of doing it. Like karaoke or something fun. Totally not romantic. Or maybe a new game - I got my kids a game they had never seen and they just loved it, we had a grand old time playing it.
Or it could be a cooking weekend. Like hire a chef to come in and instruct you two on how to cook an autumn feast. They come in and do it right in your own kitchen. At the end you have the meal, but you've also seen it done and you know how to do it on your own.
Just a few ideas. I'm thinking "less romance and more connection."
but this is just a drive-by, I have to say I haven't been following along with you. this is only from reading the prior 4 pages on this particular thread. so, for what it's worth...