Hey Karen, just checking on you. What about a 180? Stopping him from feeling like he has any kind of control over you. Cut him off completely. Engaging him isnt working with giving you peace. Glad you were able to tell him some of your feelings, but why not just let him go now? I know you are trying to move on, but each time you engage with him, you are letting him back into your world. Detaching and going dark was the best thing I could have done for my own sanity. You are such a sweet person, I hate to see him keep walking all over you. You deserve so much better.

Thinking of you.


Broken Hearted
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Me - 36
H - 37
S - 8
Married - 1992
ILYNILWY - August 2007
Moved Out - March 2008
OW Revieled - May 28, 2008
Filed for D - July 2, 2008

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