I am sorry Johanna, we all can feel your pain. But, in no way was I saying giving a BJ would solve all the world's problems. I think you out stepped your boundries on this one. All I was saying was hey, give your husband some pleasure and he might in return respond. In marriages, there are many compromises, my concern if he knows how strongly you feel about this issue, and if he loves you, why is he not responding accordingly? Has he had his testosterone level checked? Many men at the age may need a testosterone creme to help with the libido. Just trying to help Johanna, don't beat up on me again. Patsi
