another thread! Good tips from DB. I liked that book better than divorce remedy. How did it go see H yesterday. Did the visit go well? Is he still being friendly?
I know exactly what needs the OW is fulfilling for my H. Both emotional and sexual. She is spending 100% of her time treating him like a king and just focusing on him, while I am here running our D around, bills, dog etc but I am making more time for myself.
H has not called D15 since Wed she told him she did not want to hear from him. I have not heard from him either, so we are officially detached. What will he miss this weekend - D refereeing, spaghetti dinner (that he was supposed to go to) for soccer benefit, taking her to religious school and her soccer game on Sunday. What will he do? Play golf tomorrow, drink himself blind with OW, be depressed by not contacting D. Pressure on.
Also T2L, I think I have a way to semi-expose A at work. We receive these yearly e-mails from corporate where we have to sign a "conflict of interest" agreement. It includes business gift, proprietary information and the best one "prohibit personal or romantic relations with a supervisory position employee". Well guess who had to send the e-mail out to all our employees? little ole me. So I send an e-mail saying please read this conflict of interest carefully and sign only if you are not in conflict with any of the policies listed below... and this is what I list first . inappropriate relationships with supervisory employees. So I send it to everyone tee-hee. Now they will be freaking out because by signing it they are breaking company policy.
So my thought is printing that one page, highlighting the sentence that abour relations -- taping it outside the office door where she works and just putting her initials on top. So when the other 7/8 employees that work in there will see it on the door on Monday. They can either think it is a joke or make them wonder about what is going on. H will never think I would post that because he knows I don't want him to get fired, but I keep mentioning that other people are watching them. Any thoughts. OW will freak out.
My SIL called today and talked to D and she is furious with her brother. She cannot believe that H did this and she will rip him about D. She is so upset that her niece is having such a terrible time. H has not called her for a month where he used to call her almost weekly. I am sure more to follow on this!
Went to yoga today and took walk on beach with neighbor which was nice for a change. D has friends over and they are having a great time laughing in her room.
Hope all else is well.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
