I have been following the threads and posts of those you mentioned. They are excellent help!
I hear you about your C! SOunds like he's just standing there on the sidelines giving you advice that could affect the rest of your life while he's thinking: "Is it lunch time yet?". Kind of funny but then again not funny...
I called my SIL tonight. My W had said that she thought her sister was mad at her after we talked last, so I called her to see if my W had gotten a hold of her and she did. Most of the conversation, she was just telling me stuff she had told my W. I did not say anything about my W and her situation, I just talked about what I am doing, that I am still fully committed, but just had kind of a rough week. I did tell her that I think my W just needs time and space to think it all through, without too much talk.
