B Welcome sorry you find yourself here Was 2 sad explained it perfectly..thank you We didnt cause it and cant cure it the MLC It is them and they usually do not find the happiness they iniallyset out to find they compain about us,,what we did or didnt do in the M, but they are unwilling to see any changes we make to accomodate their needs they seem to like the friendship with us, but many of them still do not want to come home for a long time if ever our standing does give us time to heal, change and get thru this nightmare It appears that all of the LBS seem to thrive in their new lives after a grieving period while many of th eMLC seeem to remain unhappy depressed and confused for years to come I wish for you the best peace
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