You threatened her with what the kids might feel later in life?

Your consumption by a feeling that she is a selfish, manipulative cold hearted liar compelled you to call her and tell her that and tell her you hate her?

Your anger?

Your humiliation?

Your insurance?


Admittedly all of those emotions are justifiable under the circumstances however I am taken aback by what comes off to me as extreme self-centeredness. Perhaps it's just the nature of the post but my God, the woman is your WIFE. What part of 'in sickness and in health til death do you part' did you not comprehend? Don't come back and ask me what part SHE didnt comprehend either because that's not going to fly. She's having issues. Major ones that effect the whole family, yes. But you are supposed to be the strong one. It doesn't matter if you like the role you've been cast in. Are you going to play it to the best of your ability or not is the question.

The single biggest problem all across these boards is people being too caught up in what THEY feel and what THEY want. The small percentage of people here that have gotten their own selfish wants and desires (and anger) under their feet are the ones most likely to see their marriages restored.

Reading your post I thanked God that through all the hell I put my husband through he didn't say those kinds of things to me even when he did snap because that would have likely sent me right around the bend.

Let me ask you this: What price are you willing to pay for getting that stuff off your chest (you could have vented that sh*t here!)?

Think about it.

Because when you are dealing with a walk away wife and you choose to get stuff 'off your chest' in the manner that you did you might as well just get a gun and shoot yourself in the foot and go file for divorce your damn self.

Do you feel driven in your heart and soul to stand for the restoration of your marriage?

If so, tighten up.

If not, choose your steps wisely and carefully and handle the business at hand.

Just don't blow your own ass out of the water before you've had a chance to truly decide based on what's in your heart instead of what's on your mind.