Ps... I wanted to reply to your first post when I could read it. I am SO glad that you liked passionate marriage!!! let's keep discussing it because it is amazing!

I think you are being slightly ridiculous about the wakeboarding thing but I think maybe instead of trying to not be ridiculous you could try to figure out more about why it is upsetting. I don't think your expectations are too high, maybe he just doesn't know what you're looking for, or maybe it means something really different to him.

Is H into plans??

OBVIOUSLY you are more enjoyable than wakeboarding!!!

Maybe I've asked this before, but would you ever go wakeboarding with him? would that be a 180 for you?