Whoa - Jeff - was it really necessary to use that word about FIB's W?
You are right Nic - I was harsh and I apologize. My emotions got the best of me.
Sometimes talking to someone directly becomes too personal. A 1000 miles separates us - I wish I could have been there in NY last night. I lost sleep that I could not be there.
I wish I could say something positive about FIB's W. Words came easily two years ago when I saw a disturbed woman who was in and out of MLC and uncertainty. I rejoiced when FIB declared his M saved at one point. I told FIB he was wrong to think there was an OM#2, and then OM#3. I took her side again and again as FIB tried to save his M.
I no longer can. I believe she is only out for destruction. She is destroying FIB and her marriage and indirectly her children. A 'scorched earth' policy - what she cannot have she will destroy. That indicates a problem but I do believe she knows full well what she is doing.
That is the sadest part. For that she deserves my prayers.
I was wrong. It is not my place to judge or label. However, FIB needs to deal with this for what it is, with eyes wide open. Turning a blind eye to her behavior is not the way.
FIB, protect yourself and your kids so that they are not denied a father and a dependable provider. Weigh your options carefully.
