ACJ,

My ex is in so much financial debt.

He is going on a trip next week.

I don't get it either.

It will take my ex decades to dig himself out of this mess financially.

We just can't be a part of that.

Women crave stability.

I do

Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11