Sorry to hear that things haven't improved for you.
I wish I had some magic words, but alas, I still struggle with my relationship.
Quote; ----------- I'm tired of twice a year if I am lucky with a very inhibited H who is intimidated by a passionate woman. -----------
I was curious. How intimidated is your husband in everyday non-sexual issues?
In my relationship, my wife's self-image was/is a large portion of the problem. I have no idea how to fix it, and I have been trying for decades to do so, but to little avail.
Is it possible that he needs to do/be something positive? Does he find any satisfaction in his job or hobbies?
It just sounded like he might be suffering from some type of performance anxiety. This is all just a guess and probably wrong. You might want to try buying him a 'crutch' so to speak. You can buy a few viagra online and let him try one, "for fun". It isn't that he needs it, but it may be the insurance he needs to feel like he can perform, no matter what or how passionate you become.
Just $0.02 worth of opinion, and you get what you pay for :-)
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
