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Expect that you and your son will be very close in the future.

That's what I pray for and what I believe in my heart will happen

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I can only pray that everything will work out for the good.

I truely hope it does and it does seem like your W may be having second thoughts already.

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please, do not take this response as to avoid giving me your advice in the future

I have been here a long time. Longer than I ever expected or wanted to be here and I have learnt that this is a place for healthy debate. I also know that those of us who post to each other on a relatively frequent basis know that sometimes we need to see and hear hard things in order to see our sitches in a different light without the cloudiness of emotion. I know that when we do that for each other it is done with kindness and love. Unless you specifically ask me to not to post I will still be here watching you progress (however that may be) as I hope you will be on my thread too.

Take care


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15