Creeping through no man's land

[ACJ]

All I want to say about today's events is that I feel an inner peace that I have not felt for a very long time.

As for the event in June it wasn't my son moving out he left in April. It certainly wasn't when H and OW got engaged as that was announced on my wedding anniv 2006 (just 8 months after he left and 6 months after meeting OW) although they say they actually got engaged in April 06.

I've trawled through my old threads and I think it was when I began to realise just how low H was prepared to stoop in order to get his precious D. Well that time will be here very soon and I am now fully accepting of that. I know now it wasn't me. I know that even if he had been M to someone else he would still have done what he has done. I am at peace with my past and it feels good.

Wow! Your STBX sure has gone on a lot of holidays! Where does he get the money

That's the whole point BM, he doesn't have the money he just keeps putting it on his credit card. That is why I now need this D in order to assure my own financial stability. This time he has taken S16, S16s GF and MIL with him to OWs father's 50th birthday party in Czech Republic. The girls weren't invited. Ironic really when H is himself 43!